Love and Money

'Don't waste time getting married. Just walk up to the nearest woman, give her your house, your car, and all your money.'

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It is a well-known fact that the female of the species owns approximately ten per cent of the world’s wealth. Unfortunately, from a male point of view, they have ready access to the other ninety per cent. I won’t bother explaining that, I’m sure you already know the reasons. Money is important in love. Most women will be more likely to be attracted to a man with money than one without. That isn’t fair, men, but just live with it. Life isn’t fair. Love certainly isn’t.

YOU are responsible for your money, whether you are male or female, in a relationship or not. Personally, I want to meet a very rich, very old, very sick widow who will leave me all her money, but until I do I am responsible for my own finances. We all need to take control of our own life and our own finances. Being dependent on somebody else is not a good idea, because one day they may not be around to rescue you.

When we choose a mate, we need to be careful, for all sorts of reasons. Money is one of the most important. It doesn’t matter how much money you have. More money will just make you more of the same. If you like a drink, you will drink more. If you support charitable causes, you will support them more when you have more money. If you visit a prostitute on pay day, you will spend more money on prostitutes when you have more money. Money doesn’t change you, it makes you more of what you already are. What is important in a relationship, when it comes to money, is that you see money in the same way and have roughly the same attitude to it and the same goals.

Communication is the key with money as it is with all other aspects of your life. Don’t buy a new car without discussing it first with your partner. Discuss everything. Have shared goals with money as with all other things in your life. Talk to your partner, know their attitudes and tastes, and use money wisely. Don’t let it run your life, but use it as a tool to enhance your relationship. Honesty is the best policy with money and everything else. The female of the species values honesty very highly. Men should remember that the next time they gamble on the lottery, horses, or visit the casino without telling their partner. If you get paid on the Friday and head straight for the nearest bar, it will cost you more than money.

Money can’t buy you love. Money can buy a house but not make a home. It can buy a bed, but not sleep. It can buy you a book, but not knowledge. It can buy you pills, but not health. It can buy you sex, but never love. Neither a borrower nor a lender be. If you lend somebody a hundred dollars and never see them again, it was worth it. If you have to choose between love and money, choose love every time.

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When we enter into a relationship. it pays to know what we are letting ourselves in for in terms of money. The statistics may surprise you. Love and Money The Statistics

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